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No matter what age we are or how much experience we have, we all want to be great lovers. Most of the sex guides for women, however, have been prudish, esoteric, or incomplete. The ultimate sexual instruction book for women, How to Be a Great Lover gives you the down and dirty details that you really want to know on exactly what men like and why, and shares the proven erotic techniques that make for incredible sex you'll both enjoy.

Acclaimed sex expert Lou Paget draws on the real-life experience of the hundreds of men and women who have attended her workshops and presents their secrets and tricks in an elegant, no-nonsense style. Lou has found that in the bedroom (or closet, or kitchen), knowledge equals confidence, and confidence will make you feel empowered, heighten the intimacy of your relationship, and enable you and your partner to enjoy yourselves in a variety of intense, new ways. Whether you are starting a new relationship, have run out of creative ideas, or want to light his fire all over again, How to Be a Great Lover has enough spicy tips and surprises to excite both of you and leave him begging for more.

From kissing techniques, ways to create the right atmosphere, and a lesson on safe sex--including the "Italian Method" of putting a condom on a man with your mouth--to twenty different manual techniques and the secrets of great oral sex, Lou covers all the basics and more. She offers innovative positions for intercourse, tantalizing moves you can do with a pearl necklace, and a beginner's guide to anal stimulation, as well as a catalogue of sex toys and how to use them. With more than ninety step-by-step illustrations that will show you how to drive him wild, How to Be a Great Lover provides proven, sure-fire techniques that will make you a master of the bedroom.

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Informative and Tasteful	Customer Rating:
My husband and I really liked this book. It was informative and respectful toward the subject. Very good for those who value intimacy in their relationship, but enjoying keeping it private from their friends. Lou Paget has many other books we own: How to give Him Ultimate Pleasure, as well as a Hot Mamma Book (about keeping intimacy alive during pregnancy). She is a great author.

PLEASE HIM AND HE WILL PLEASE YOU

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The techniques for pleasing a man in this book are very explicit, and I for one appreciate that. A lot of esoteric language about communicating and getting in touch with our feelings is not exactly what I was looking for. I think it's great that women want to give their man a mind-blowing time in bed. In fact, the best thing about that is it makes him more willing to reciprocate. If he isn't willing, then perhaps it's time for us ladies to take responsibility for our own sexual happiness. Try reading Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple, and become responsible for your own orgasm. These two books together will make for a great coupling. Even better, add this book to the mix, and you will be spending the rest of your lives in bed together: The Sensuous Couple's (Flip Over) Guide to Seismic Oral Sex!

Not Exceptional, But a Useful Resource Nonetheless

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In my not-too-distant past I peddled adult novelties. I've sold books such as this as well as having read my fair share, if only to offer ideas to frustrated housewives and girlfriends alike. After receiving this book, I got through the preliminary chapters quickly enough and did end up learning a few things from the later chapters, but nothing too earth-shattering. That being said, if I were purchasing my first or second book for sex advice, this would definitely be in the running. Ultimately, if you're looking for new, different, and exciting, this might not be the book for you ... but if you want good, solid guidance beyond the basics, this is a great option for you.

Great book with diagrams & steps to help you improve.	Customer Rating:
This book is definitely one of the best books I've read for those who want to improve their relationships. It's not only a book about how to do things, step by step & with pictures, it also gives you a perspective that you don't expect. This book is for those of us who aren't experts in the bedroom or want to add variety in their sex life. I would recommend it to women everywhere.

So good I passed it on to my girlfriend - her boyfriend is VERY happy	Customer Rating:
This is a great book! Fun and easy to follow. I have gotten compliments and I've even shared it with a friend who's boyfriend has also commented on the improvements/excitement the book has created.